How To Write A Family Memoir

by Alex Melen on August 03, 2022

How To Write A Family Memoir

It's not always easy to write about your family. After all, they're the people who know you best, and sometimes, that can be a little too close for comfort!. But when done well, writing a family memoir can be an incredibly rewarding experience. This is how to get started.

First, it's important to think about what you want to achieve with your memoir. Are you looking for closure? To share your stories with others? To preserve your family's history? Once you know what your goal is, it'll be easier to figure out which stories to focus on.

Next, start by talking to every family member about their memories of growing up.


Family memoirs are a popular genre, and for a good reason. They offer readers a chance to catch a glimpse into the lives of others and to learn about the shared experience of being part of a family. But before you sit down to write your family memoir, brainstorming is important.

Who will be the main characters in your story? What are the key events that shaped your family history? What are the unique traditions that make your family special? How to capture your family memories in images?  By taking some time to answer these questions, you'll be sure to create a personal and memorable memoir.

Structure Your Story Around Themes

When it comes to writing a family memoir, one of the most important things to remember is your story's theme. What are the overriding messages that you want to communicate? What values do you want to highlight? Once you have the themes, you can start to structure your story around them. This will help to ensure that every element of your book supports your central message and helps to bring your themes to life. Of course, this isn't to say that every scene in your book needs to be didactic or moralistic. But by keeping your themes in mind as you write, you can ensure that your story is cohesive and that each element serves a purpose. So if you want to start writing your family memoir, consider the themes that will guide your story. By doing so, you'll be able to create a powerful and timeless book that captures the essence of your family.

Be Honest

In his family memoir, "BE HONEST," Bill Honesty describes the importance of being honest in all aspects of life. He opens the book by sharing an incident from his childhood in which he was caught stealing candy from a store. His father's reaction to the incident taught him the importance of honesty, even when it's hard. Through his stories, Honesty shares the many lessons he's learned about honesty over the years and how it has helped him in both his personal and professional life. While some of the stories are funny, others are more serious, but all serve to illustrate the importance of being truthful. "BE HONEST" is an entertaining and thought-provoking read that will leave readers with a new appreciation for the power of honesty.

Whether you're just starting out on your memoir or have been working on it for years, these tips will help you write a family history that is both interesting and accurate. Always consult with other family members before publishing any information and be respectful of the living and the dead. With careful research, writing, and editing, you can create a family memoir that future generations will cherish.